Starting a good conversation is a difficult as proposing marriage to your special someone. For those who lack confidence, starting a conversation can make them nervous and uncomfortable while for those who are very much confident and outspoken starting a good conversation is as simple as learning ABC.
Communication is vital for us to survive in this world. We cannot survive without the people around us, we need to interact with them and befriend them if possible. Some individuals have great communication skills especially those who are exposed in industries where good communications are important in their field.
Starting a good conversation can be learned by applying and recalling these tips:
1.) Talk about current event and fave topics
- Almost everyone loves talking about current events most especially about our favorite celebrities and about our dwindling economy. We also love talking about popular food and famous places in our location so make sure to initiate a topic that will get a response and might interest the person you are talking to. Make sure you have enough knowledge on the topics you want to talk about so that conversation will be free-flowing.
2.) Smile and look them in the eye.
- Studies show that a smile can bring a person even a total stranger closer to you. Greeting them with a smile can create an image of friendliness and nice personality. It is also important to look at the person you are talking to directly in the eye. This shows that you are listening intently to what they’re saying and that you are sincere in getting their ideas and opinion on the topic you are discussing.
3.) Ask open questions
- Ask questions that start with how and why. It will draw out a longer and more definite response from them. Avoid asking questions answerable only by yes or no. The “why” and “how” questions are much better in making a conversation lasts long.
4.) Say positive things about how they look
- People especially girls love getting compliments on how they look, how attractive they look in their clothes or how nice their haircut is. Try to compliment them but just don’t overdo it. It might sound too obvious that you are trying to get their attention.
5.) Be a good listener
- All of us love talking when we notice that the person we are talking to is listening intently to what we are saying. Thus, make sure to listen well to what the person you are talking to is saying so you can respond well and continue the conversation.
Keep in mind that communicating with other people is very important and that in order to start and carry on a good conversation you have to consider important factors and keep in mind the tips on good conversation starters.
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